As we approach the Holiday season you see love in the air everywhere you look, something you especially take note of if you and your loved one have split. It brings a yearning in your heart for a 2nd Chance with your true love.
When shopping in the malls you see couples holding hands, getting excited about something they have found to buy for their mate and you think “we used to do that too”.
You begin to reminisce about the good times you and your ex once had together. You couldn’t wait to spend time together. You would laugh and talk and have a really fun time with each other.
What Happened…
What happened, you say. How did we grow apart from such a loving beginning. We obviously cared dearly for each other in the beginning. Then you realize from your own current emotions that you still really care for your ex. You wonder if he still really cares for you and would like to get back together.
You know without a doubt that you would love to get back together and have a second chance at making things work. After all as you get older, life becomes so lonely when you don’t have a true love to share it with.
Oh, I Have My Friends…
You have your friends, who by the way are all for giving you advice when they don’t really know how you feel. The fact is there are some of your friends that you are truly close to, but it isn’t really the same as having the love of a soul mate. Your friends go home to their families during the holidays and aren’t there when you need them the most.
When you see an older couple doting over each other you wonder how did they keep it together all those years. You know they had to have disagreements and go through some tough times during their lifetime together. Yet, they are still together and seem to truly enjoy being together and still love each other very much.
Why Not Me?
You start to wonder why can’t you have that kind of love and companionship in your life, as long as you live.
You can! But, you say, I only have one person that I want to do that with, and that is my ex. That is my true love and I don’t actually know how to even begin to get him back.
You have thought about calling but you are not sure how to start the conversation when he answers. You are really afraid that they will just hang up on you and not even give you a chance to begin trying to talk with them.
Maybe you have thought about just texting your ex but you don’t want to seem like you are begging them to come back.
Regardless of which approach you take to communicate with them, you don’t really know what is exactly the right thing to say to begin the healing process.
Learn From Others
Most of your friends or family members can’t help you either, because they haven’t really been in your shoes. They think they know what they would do and what you should do, but the truth is they don’t really know until they have actually been in your position. Also, you have to remember that it is your life, the rest of your life, and not theirs. When you are old and alone they very likely won’t be anywhere to be found.
There is an excellent eBook that addresses your exact situation and gives you advice from those who have experienced what you are going through and have come out of it with a second chance for a lifetime of true love with their ex.
The eBook is appropriately titled 2nd Chance and is by Mirabelle Summers. Mirabelle has a very outspoken style of writing which is just one indication that she is a perfect gal to share some much needed straight talk with women about the anguish, and also depression, you feel at this time in your life.
It is not just about your feelings, but what to do about your situation and how to regain the love you once had and get a 2nd Chance with your ex to have that ’til death do us part’ relationship that you once had.
At least go check it out! You will be glad you did.